Ok, I am back. We will continue from paragraph 4 of Chapter 1 where we left off in the previous post.
When a fellow-feeling is triggered in us, not only that we are able
to feel another person's suffering, but we also feel their fellow-feeling as well: "We enter into their gratitude towards those faithful
friends who did not desert them in their difficulties; and we heartily
go along with their resentment against those perfidious traitors who
injured, abandoned, or deceived them."
Smith then generalizes this fellow-feeling and says we can begin to
call it "sympathy." Sympathy, in other words, is a term that "can be
made use of to denote our fellow-feeeling with any passion whatever."
So far so good. I get it, sympathy as a fellow-feeling. But is that it? What is so great about expounding on such an obvious
feeling that we all feel towards the others? But wait. Let's back up
a bit. Are we really aware of how exactly this sympathy operates? It
seems that most of us only know what sympathy really is in a kind of
sort of know vague terms. We have only a general, intuitive awareness
of it. We know when we feel sympathy, and we can also tell when we
don't feel it. A smiling face evokes a cheerful feeling in us; and a
sorrowful countenance reminds us of a melancholy feeling.
But it's not always the case. Let's look at
an example of a furious man in anger. There are some things that don't excite any sort of
sympathy at all but, as Smith says, on the contrary, "serve rather to
disgust and provoke us against them." "The furious behaviour of an angry man is more
likely to exasperate us against himself than against his enemies." (paragraph 7)
Because we don't yet know why this man is angry, in the immediate moment of seeing this angry man, we tend to have feelings against this man himself, rather than against those who caused this anger in him. Not only that, we actually sympathize with all of these others who are the target of this man's anger. So now all of a sudden there three parties involved here that directly drive our sympathy feeling:
- there is this man himself who is angry;
- then there are these people who did something nasty for which this man is angry;
- and then there are those others who are afraid and fearful, not know what this angry man will do to them.
Of these three, our immediate sympathy is towards the third party, i.e., those who are fearful and we become somewhat antagonistic towards the man himself whom we see as the aggressor.
With this example Smith draws a key distinction in the way we feel. This distinction to me is very important all the more because it often doesn't occur to us that we behave this way. And it actually helps us a lot in our understanding of the human condition when we become aware of this distinction. What is this distinction?
It is that when we view grief or joy in another person, it creates sympathy in us for the very person who is grieving or joyful: we feel the same emotion for her ("The effects of grief and joy terminate in the person who feels those emotions...") Our sympathy goes from us to them and we are united in that feeling for that moment. There is no other party involved.
But when we view an angry woman or a resentful man, in the immediate moment we are more likely to shrink away from this angry or resentful person. All of a sudden it is not just we and them anymore. We think of all the reasons or causes why this person is angry and we somehow don't step forward immediately so warmly to embrace this angry person.
So I see that it's not all that simple anymore. Our sympathy, the fellow-feeling, is not all that unconditional and unchanging as we somehow thought that it was, but it actually depends on what type of atmosphere it is that we find ourselves in. Actually if we really think about it, Smith says, even the grief and joy that we feel are really not all that strong in that spontaneous moment. We feel it, but until that "What has befallen you?" question is adequately answered, "our fellow-feeling is not very considerable."
Having said all that, at the end of the day, we are bound by this fellow-feeling, this sympathy for the other, really as a basic condition of the way we feel as we go through our daily lives. There is an exhilarating narrative at the end of Chapter 1, paragraphs 11, 12 and 13 that reminded me of the intensity of the feeling in Job's travails.
Next post will start with Chapter 2 ("Of the Pleasure of mutual Sympathy").
